Monday, April 5, 2010

13 comments:

owlishly said...

This is so sweet. I know how much she means to you. <3

Anonymous said...

Chey: I am so proud of you for being the bigger person here considering the way you've been treated...you are awesome and this is really a great tribute. I know how much she means to you. Love ya!

Susannah said...

Your love for her is incredible, especially thinking of all that has happened. The ability some people have to just turn off feelings such as love will never cease to amaze me - you obviously are above that.
Happy birthday, M!

Dawna said...

<3 <3 <3 it! What a sweet little doll. Hard to believe that she's five!
I hope someday she realizes what a special person you are and that if she ever needs anything that you are here for her despite the odds.
Happy birthday!

Dyan said...

Chey,
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful child. I have such admiration for your courage, strength and your inimitable talent regarding motherhood. Love and truth will always triumph and you have that in your good spirit and precious heart. You are one of a kind and mean a great deal to those who truly know you.

Anonymous said...

I am SO embarrassed for you.

Susannah said...

Huh. Really, anonymous? I'm pretty damn embarrassed for you. Not too surprised that you are "anonymous" though.

owlishly said...

Wow Team Anonymous, you guys can't even separate wishing a much loved girl happy birthday from your delusions and frenzy of evil? Are you really that bored and spineless? Way to go with your anonymity, you really took one for the team. Grow some balls and own up to your words, which say a lot more about you assholes than someone who loved a baby. Why the fuck are you even reading this blog Road Runner?

stone hunter said...

Happy Birthday Maia!!!!!

Hey amazing child, five of the six people posting on this blog are truly your well-wishers. Lucky girl!

You're a bit young, so pretend I'm writing this in cursive...........................

When you're older, you'll probably find that those statistics are just about right.

Love but give people plenty of time to show their true selves... acknowledge any and all red flags acknowledge your strength and fucking ignore the 6th idiot.

Jess

Dawna said...

BTW-I LOVE the new look!

Dawna said...

Anonymous: Stand-by while I put on my shocked face for the surprisingly stupid post from someone posing as "anonymous".
Oh wait! I'm neither shocked nor surprised, so nevermind!
However, I would like to say that if you truly believe in what you have to say then stand behind it wholeheartedly! Don't hide behind a nameless facade, otherwise you might as well just keep it to yourself.

Cheyenne said...

D,D,S, and Mom:

Believe me I knew that "Anonymous," a title held by a gaggle of bored, roving bitches, who prowl my blogs like trolls to make sure I am still "stalking" them, would feast on this post like so many wildebeests on the savanna. They delight in writing scathing things about my children, and anything else that might hurt me. But to really see the comments in print (there were others I didn't publish), really cemented my understanding of how soulless they are. I helped raise this baby for four years, and I love her. This is my blog, and it is my right to honour the time I spent with her. It is sacrosanct as far as I'm concerned, but these people relish poisoning the minds and lives of any who deign to question them. Seeing right through them is especially treacherous, for they will rip through a family leaving mere entrails in their wake. You know this Susannah, they don't give a shit about the damage they're doing to Keagan. And they are incapable of understanding that love is unconditional, especially for a child.
Mom, I loved your message to Maia, but she will be raised to be a droid, and to squelch all autonomous thoughts. Still, I know that somewhere inside her, she will remember that I loved her like my own, and that I was the only one of her three parents who never said "I hate her."
Dyan, as much as I shame you for being such a goddamned tease about moving back, I can't blame you for not cashing in your ten feet of snow for this infestation of douche bags. They have so defiled the badge of "mama" all they have left is the virulent strain of evil they recognize in each other.

Whatever. This baby's uterus donor never even took pictures of her during her first four years, and has never even asked me for mine, so I don't have anything to be embarrassed about for loving her, and praying she has a fighting chance.

Dawna--I know right? Cowards all. I have nothing to hide, so I don't. They are not anonymous to me, I know who writes what. You can see how this bloodbath came to be by reading All the Proof You'll Need.

It is they who should be embarrassed to taint a child's happy birthday, and for even reading this blog, idle shitbags.

Cheyenne said...

PS--Debe, I am offended by your verbosity, as anyone who knows you knows how shy you are. Thus, it has been determined that someone else must spoken for you.

Being shy obviously = Helen Keller, stop being so dangerous.